It can be helpful to begin by slowly pushing and pulling your finger or small toy in and out of your anus, past your sphincter.
If you've ever had an unpleasant medical exam with an anal examination, you may think that all anal play feels like that.
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Then wash your with antibacterial soap and warm water, letting the toys air-dry.
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